Desperate, stressed and Upset. Please Help?

I sympathize with you.My own mother has end stage renal failure. I take care of her and my mother-in-law. Both are very sick and both are very selfish. I try to remember that it's a part of their disease process and also that both of them are dying. I have had to quit work to meet their needs and it is really difficult when I know that neither one of them appreciate what I do. Honestly, I don't think I can do it for much longer. Both need to go to nursing homes and as long as I will take care of them they won't go. If I were you I would make it very clear to the police that you spent your brother's money with his permission. If you need to, see a lawyer. You have to defend yourself. Also, I think he has made the decision to end your relationship by calling the police. I would forget your ungrateful brother and concentrate on your children and your health and your job. Good Luck to you. You can e-mail me if you ever need someone to talk to.